How To Keep the Spark in Long Term Relationships
Hi there beautiful, how are we today? Are we feeling okay? Have we told our partner we love them?
AGENDA
Today we are talking about the importance of keeping a spark throughout a relationship.
Picture this, you are 4 years deep with the love of your life. Everything is great, you are the most comfortable you have been. You come home to each other everyday, you fold each others laundry, you live and breathe the same air every. second. It’s a dream. It is what you have always pictured, living happily ever after with your partner.
A year later, everything is still great but the comfortability levels are sinking in. Sex is not always #1 anymore, and you rarely flirt with each other. This is what I like to call the honeymoon stage. Yes, yes, the first few months to a year feel like you are living your own fantasy. You dream about this person and always want to be near them. The world could cave in but as long as you have them you’re okay.
We tend to become comfortable and start to become reliant, you consider them to be a part of you. This is powerful, however keeping a spark throughout your relationship will help boost your love life and help keep your feelings alive.
LET’S TALK ABOUT IT <3
So let’s start with some ideas.
How can I continue to feel like I am always in the honey moon phase?
I love to tell couples who express these issues to me to spontaneously flirt with each other. Sext them, send them sexy and fun photos, say something you normally wouldn’t, express your spicy erotica in your mind and bring it to action.
TRY NEW THINGS
I am HUGE on encouraging couples to try new experiences with each other in the bedroom. No matter what level you are on, whether it is trying lube for the first time, or setting up a new sex swing, there are so many fun toys out there to pick out together. This in itself is a huge bonding experience!
Next time you are together take a gander on the website, add things to your cart and talk about what looks fun for each other. Even games! If you aren’t up to that level yet, there is something for every couple to try.
CREATE SUSPENSE.
One of the BEST ways to stay hot between your partner is to PLAN and COMMUNICATE your thoughts of being with them later. It could be as simple as telling them you had showered and want to feel their skin against yours. Plan a date night, plan a cute lingerie set. Create an atmosphere that ignites the spark of being flirty with each other. Building suspense and being open allows your partner to go about their day with the thought in their head that you want them. This will leave your partner hungry for you later on. This is what we want.
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To wrap her up, let’s keep this spark always lit.
Plan dates.
Sext. Sext a lot.
Express. Flirt. Explore. Compliment. LOVE.
Always feel young and spunky. Be goofy together and prance around store isles. Kiss in the rain, feel like you are in that movie. This is your movie ;)
