TEMPERATURE PLAY

Let’s talk about a topic that I don’t see very often. Temperature play.

The idea sparked me when I was watching a movie, (I won’t say the movie because I don’t want to spoil it) but he grabbed an ice cube from the glass, so gracefully too, and began rubbing it around his girlfriends chest, letting the water drip down to her breast, all the way down her body, UGH. After I watched this scene I felt turned on and wanted to try it myself.


PLAYING WITH COOLING & CHILL 🧊

Aside from using the most natural option, ice, we have some fun products to try out to also spice it up a bit.

Back to the story I was explaining earlier on the whole sexy ice cube scene, the CHILLS that were created… but also as the same time you are also getting turned on? The combination and contrast on sensations can really put your body in a wave that you just NEED to ride out, literally.

PLAYING WITH FIRE, BABY 🔥

If you choose to explore heat, honey do you have OPTIONS.

WHAT TO USE?

Using heat as an enhancement allows your body to experience the heat of moment to it’s fullest. While it relaxes your muscles, it also can allow any sort of pain to subside. If you are someone who does experience pain during sex, try adding in some CBD lube as well… you will thank me later <3

Anyways… from lubes, to wax candles, to warming massaging oil, to fire it’s self…(btw if you play with fire and are NOT a professional, please proceed with caution!) We have much to explore here.


Applying different temperatures to your body during arousal is super fun to play around with. You experience heat, love, chills, sensations all running through your body, relaxing you being the main thing.

If you want to feel at ease and submerge into the sex you are about to have, I would choose heat.

If you want to add a spark and be a little frisky, I would say use cold for this one.

There is a catch with cooling, is it is a very specific feeling only some love to embody. I know me personally, HATE the cold and would much rather feel heat instead. The sensations are really unique for everyone, which makes this fun to explore with a partner. Maybe your partner LOVES the feeling of having a cold ice cube rush down their back, while the other partner is a pro expert in fire play.

This could unlock something new to explore if you haven’t felt either sensations fully.

PRO TIP: If you have any glass/metal products, leave them in the freezer for up to an hour, this will wake you right up. OR, leave your toy in a bowl of hot water for a few minutes. MAKE SURE IT IS SAFE WITH YOUR TOY BEFORE DOING SO! <3

Lastly but Importantly, take your time, ease into temperature at your own speed. Find what turns you on, and ignite it ;)

Iris

A pleasure product guru, Miss Iris is our health and wellness outlet.

Iris is a self portrait photographer who specifically studies the feminine beauty of growth, change, and the taboo. Photographing everything from pleasure products, mundane daily routines, and reflecting on adolescence as a young femme. When she’s not shooting, she is probably neck deep somewhere blogging or podcasting about Sex Ed. 

Iris has been in the game for a few years now, earning certifications and completing trainings on all of our fun products.

Iris has a juicy passion of educating others in any way that involves sexual health and overall self love journeys. 

Combing picture taking and knowledge in this field, step into Iris’s bubble and explore her stories and tips just for you <3 

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