10 Fantasies To Try With Your Partner
Buckle up for this week my loves, today we’re going to brainstorm and dive into 10 different fantasies you can try with your partner at home.
We know that sprucing up a relationship is a lot easier said than done. We love to fantasize about new and exciting scenarios, we think about the what if’s, and what new kink or fetish could be introduced.
You may have a fetish or kink waiting to come out, it’s slipping right off the tip of your tongue, but you don’t want to force anything onto your partner.
As I have blogged about in the past, How talk about sex with your partner is a whole different conversation. If you need to revisit, click the link! Today however, we are going to steer in a bit of a different direction.
Say you have had the conversation with your partner. You both know you are ready to spice things up and get down with it.
Here are 10 different fantasies you can explore with your partner. This is only a blueprint for us of course, add your own sugar and spices, whips, chains, make it your own story!
1.TEASE PLAY / EDGING
I think we know what I mean when I say teasing. Edging, is just a unique word that basically means prolong climax by teasing. Which is a really hot technique to use with your partner. Try to guide them using words, the goal is to prolong the orgasm for as long as they can possibly go. As soon as you give your partner the okay, it WILL be the best O ever.
2. VOYEURISM
Ahhh, the sensual act of observing your partner while pleasuring themself. This could be a mutual masturbation, or even taking turns, while using the edging technique. The act of this seems to turn people on by seeing the satisfaction that comes out of your partner. This is also a really good way to learn what your partner likes and how they go about doing it, take notes.
3. MAKE A SEX TAPE
The most intimate video you and your partner could ever own. You could get crafty, add in some role play, use angles, edit it into a real porno! I could write a whole blog on this one itself. You will always appreciate having a home made video vs. the videos you find on the internet.
4. ROLE PLAY
The beauty of role play is that the possibilities are endless. Try reversing roles, sub becomes dom and vise versa. Try out your favorite movie characters, a student and teacher, an IT tech and client, (did I say the last one out loud?) Be fun with this one! If you’re at a bar one night, act like strangers, take each other home, dress up, and explore ;)
5. ADD IN ANOTHER PARTNER
Of course with the consent and conversation with your partner beforehand. Go out on the town one night, interact and meet someone with the same intentions. You know where to take it from here…
6. ADD SOME FLAVORS
Melt chocolate, use a flavored lube, of course I’ll leave some yummy ones below. Literally, eat each other up. Need I say more?
7. BRING OUT THE GAMES
Have you ever heard of strip Uno? Neither have I… but I would love to try that.
Spin the bottle, sex dice, fun sexy truth or dare, kinky twister. Bring out some body paint, get naked, and play some twister. BAM, i just covered your next date night ;)
8. VIBES, TOYS, PLUGS, REMOTES
Dive into your arsenal and charge up all your favorite toys. To spice it up even more, try using a remote vibe that your partner has the ability to play with. This could be in the bedroom, or in the grocery store… that one I’ll leave up to you!
9. CHANGE LOCATIONS
Maybe you are home alone one day, or have the opportunity to do it in the backyard. HOT? Yes. the kitchen? Dining room table? Living room? Bathroom? Make love and christen every room if you need to for this one. You may find out the kitchen counter is a little better than the side of the bed.
10. MAKE A FANTASY TOGETHER
Have a conversation with your partner one night, preferably over dinner or maybe at a bar, just not the bedroom. Brainstorm a fun topic/ idea just like these! Pick each other’s brains, learn what they may like, or not like! Go from there… I’ll leave you to it <3
