10 BEST ANAL SEX TIPS FOR FIRST-TIMERS
Looking for an addition to your sexual repertoire? Anal sex is a go! While it’s considered a deal-breaker and off-limits to most women, it’s a welcome addition to others.
If you’re considering having anal sex, bear in mind it involves prep work. You don’t stuff a penis deep down your tushy and expect it to be delightful. No, no, no, trust me, you don’t want to cry out in pain!
Of course, when you prep beforehand, you can achieve an anal orgasm. Your tushy has sensitive nerve endings, and thousands of them are concentrated around the butt opening.
During anal sex, your pelvic muscles contract; you can achieve a mindblowing anal orgasm with proper psychological stimulation.
If you want to enjoy anal sex with your partner, you need to know these anal sex tips for beginners.
Take A Deep Breath, Girl!
Well, not necessarily taking a deep breath but relaxing your mind and body, that’s the first you have to do if you want to have anal sex.
If you’re tensed and keep asking these questions,
Can I get an infection? Does it hurt? What does it feel like? How can I make it enjoyable for us? You won’t be psychologically stimulated, and anal sex won’t be pleasurable to you.
Anal sex is not something you can rush into without relaxing. Don’t let these thoughts block your pleasure pathway. Relax your mind and body, and you will feel a more pleasurable sensation. If you’re not feeling the anal sex, there are no consequences in calling it off, and that’s why this next anal sex tip is crucial.
Talk Things Out
Imagine being penetrated through the anus without prior prep work; you will scream, “It’s painful,” and that’s a turn-off.Which is why you need to communicate with your partner before anal sex. Talk about the speed, depth, position, and when to call it off.If you’re not enjoying anal sex, your partner can stop thrusting right away. Anal sex is not for everyone, and there’s nothing wrong with trying.
Pay attention to what you’re feeling and speak up when you don’t feel it.
Throw In Some Foreplay
Engage in plenty of foreplay before anal sex; this will make you extremely aroused and help ease your way into anal sex. You can start with clitoral stimulation, do everything that turns you on, and you can also orgasm before anal penetration. The more aroused you are, the more enjoyable the anal sex will be. This anal sex tip will relax your sphincter muscles and make it hotter for you.
Lube it Up!
Lube is your best friend during anal sex. The anus isn’t self-lubricating, unlike your slippery coochie. The more lube-ready you are, the more slippery your tushy will be, and penetration will be easier and pleasurable.You will have to apply lube continuously if it dries out to protect your anal walls from friction injuries.Investing in a good lube will make anal sex feel great, and make sure you have lots of lube for safer and hotter sex.
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Anal Sex Position
Anal sex positions play a huge role in a pleasurable anal sex play; some positions like lap dance can help you control his thrusting depth and speed.Other good anal sex positions include doggy, lying dogging, and spooning.If you feel pain at any point during the anal sex, tell your partner to ease up, switch position, or call it off.
Anal Sex Protection
During anal sex, there’s no risk of getting pregnant, but there’s a risk of contracting an infection (bacteria in the anus can spread anywhere) Tell your man to wear a condom and don’t go from anal sex to vaginal sex, not advisable at all. If you want to go for vaginal sex, ditch the condom to avoid infection. We also recommend you use a water-based lubricant to avoid latex degradation and infection contraction.
Go slow and go small
There’s no rushing during anal penetration. No matter how much lube you apply, it won’t be as slippery as your wet ass pussy. For anal sex first-timers, taking it slow and going small is sweeter and safer; tell your partner to use his finger or a toy. Let him start slowly with the tip before going deeper.Let him play around with your tushy, rub the opening with his finger before inserting his shaft. Remember how sex felt on your first day; compare that with your tushy, you would know that starting small and going slow is the key to enjoyable anal sex for first-timers.
Add Extra Stimulation
Here’s the best way to enjoy anal sex. Throw in some extra stimulation to the mix. Stimulating your vagina with sex toys while he plays around with your butt can be extremely pleasurable. Imagine combining pain and pleasure. A vibrator will be a good fit for your clit stimulation. To achieve mindblowing orgasms, combine anal sex with clit and vaginal stimulation, and watch your mind blown away.
So, add sex toys to the mix and enjoy anal sex with your partner. Don’t forget to lube, lube, and lube!
Try the Kip Vibrator
Try Anal Toys
There are toys suited for anal sex like anal plugs.
Anal plugs are toys that plug your butt, and it’s so pleasurable for starters.Anal or butt plugs can make you feel good. It’s advisable to switch the penis with a suitable butt plug for more pleasure. Also, use lube, use more than you think you might need, and enjoy the tushy play. Check out this orgasmful butt plug
If you’re not feeling, stop.
The most important about anal sex is to make sure you’re enjoying the act. Don’t comply because you don’t want your man to feel bad; if you’re not feeling it, stop. If it hurts, stop. If you don’t want to try it out, don’t. Communicate better with your man and make sure anal sex is on your sexual radar before trying it out.
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