3 Rules to Having A Dope Threesome
Interested in having a threesome? That is so exciting, regardless of if you are introducing a third into an existing relationship, being that elusive sexy unicorn, or being one of three singles that are coming together for an exciting experience. There are 3 important rules to having a dope threesome.
Communication.
It is very important that all parties communicate BEFORE things get spicy so that everyone is on the same page. Is anything off the table? What would an ideal experience look like? What’s the plan for after? It seems silly to talk about after before, but it can lead to misunderstandings if one partner thinks that there is going to be a cute cuddly night after and the others plan to leave right after. Also, consent gets even more complex with more than one person, so discussing anything that partners are not into before can help create a safer space.
Don’t leave anyone out!
Unless this is a cuckold situation, it is really important that all parties feel included the whole time. This means a threesome might not make sense in a situation where two parties have been wanting to fuck for years, and the third person is random. Ideally, all three people will be into each other. If that is not the case, discuss what that means. For example if it is two dudes that are not into the penis, how will this be managed? Are they ok being close enough for double penetration, or would they prefer a blow job concurrent sex vibe. How do they feel about having sex with the girl after the other dude fucked her? There is nothing wrong with having any preferences, what’s important is that they are discussed before so that all parties understand each other.
Have fun!
The point of a threesome is for everyone to experience something novel and exciting. If there is a position that you want or something that would excite you, express it. I always wanted to experience the sensation of having four hands touch my body at the same time. I know, tame fantasy. However, the only way I was able to make it happen was to express what I wanted. If all partners are interested in engaging with one another, I suggest having a few minutes where each partner says what type of stimulation they enjoy and the other two partners make it happen. Also, remember orgasms are dope, but they are not the point, so don’t worry too much about who comes when, or if they do. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves, keep it going. It’s also totally ok for a partner to time out and watch for a bit until they are ready to tap back in. There are no hard rules here as long as everyone communities what they are into, has a solid consent game and enjoys themselves!
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