Butt Plugs 101

Anal beads, butt plugs, tails, vibrating plugs… where do we start?

ANAL 101

Hey there girly pop, today I woke up and chose anal. Are we feeling it?

As in… are your hypogastric nerves ready to feel pleasure?

Excuse you? OH, the nerve endings near your rectum! These nerves are one of a few different ways we feel stimulation from anal.

LET’S TALK FINGER FIRST

POV: You have never put anything up there besides the thermometer by the doctor back in 2004.

Thumb? Middle? Pinky? PINKY. Stop right there.

This is our first contestant when it comes to anal play. Just the itty bitty tip of the pinky! (Make sure the nails are nicely trimmed, and CLEANED. I promise you will thank me later.)

Take a look at her, intimidating? Maybe slightly. Let’s boost it up a notch.

Today we are working with something new. Grab your anal based lube, and apply a nice coating around your pinky. Lather her up, and even apply a dime sized amount to your hole area as well. Let’s start slow, and prepare the area.


Here is a little secret, if you take your lube game a step further, try using a lubrication that either heats up in temperature, or has CBD infused into it, just like the Ooowee Anal Relaxer.

Temperature play, hemp, and CBD are all components that help your body relax and become vulnerable. This is good. We want the area to be as relaxed as possible. Once the muscles in your rear end get a sense of pressure and pleasure, this will start to open up your gates to bigger and better things ;)

SIDE NOTE: Take. your. time. I cannot stress enough. Even if it takes you one day or one week to get a plug in there, your body is working at it’s own speed.

LET’S TALK PLUGS

Back to my first statement, anal beads, butt plugs, tails, vibrating plugs… where do we start?

I am a huge advocate for butt plug sets. These usually comes with 2-4 different sized plugs, each taking it a step up. They start off small, or slim, and work their way up to bigger and rounder plugs to insert. Just like this cutie set I attached, something just like this! A cute range for you to work with.

THIS OR THAT

Silicone, glass, or metal? Well, it’s completely up to you!

PRO’S of silicone: softer and smoother

PRO’S of glass/metal: can combine any lube, temperature play

*TIP #2 FOR YOU* For beginners, go with the plugs that are shaped more circular. For intermediates and experts, shoot for the plugs that are more tear drop shaped.

To wrap her up, anal play should not intimate you. If it does, maybe you aren’t ready yet! I still am exploring my parts down there and it is really a journey that only you can control.

To leave you with this, this area of play will only add more pleasure for you at the end of the day. Who doesn’t want maximum pleasure???!

Iris

A pleasure product guru, Miss Iris is our health and wellness outlet.

Iris is a self portrait photographer who specifically studies the feminine beauty of growth, change, and the taboo. Photographing everything from pleasure products, mundane daily routines, and reflecting on adolescence as a young femme. When she’s not shooting, she is probably neck deep somewhere blogging or podcasting about Sex Ed. 

Iris has been in the game for a few years now, earning certifications and completing trainings on all of our fun products.

Iris has a juicy passion of educating others in any way that involves sexual health and overall self love journeys. 

Combing picture taking and knowledge in this field, step into Iris’s bubble and explore her stories and tips just for you <3 

Previous
Previous

The Lube Guide

Next
Next

How To Date Yourself