SEX IN PUBLIC PLACES
How? Where?
I second guessed this blog because if I am being honest, I’ve had the cops creep up on me when I was getting down in the beach parking lot, LOL.
ANYWAYS…
I think its hot. It is a hot commodity. If you’re in the car, with the right person, the right mood, music, ugh, close your eyes and think of it.
LOCATION IS EVERYTHING
Let’s settle with the image of being in the car.
You drive off, where? Well, if you are like me and live in a town that has nature trails and hiking areas, go to those parking lots. I swear, no one is ever there at night. I always have managed to get away with being in one of these secluded lots, especially around big trees at night, they will never find us…
Depending on how many people read this blog, we can’t let them in on our secret! Unless we all show up there…
So, going back to the time I got caught, I obviously did not get out of the car. Leave the man to take the downfall, which in my case was really only a warning. We were there past the beach hours and silly us didn’t think about public safety roaming around, well, they did. You know how funny it was to watch my boyfriend at the time scramble to put his inside out jeans on, shoes, and shirt, all within 7 seconds? I can laugh about it now, but at the time I nearly thought my naked ass was about to get exposed, LITERALLY. It would have been a good night for those cops.
I have asked this question to a few friends of mine, the weirdest spots you have had sex in, and what possessed them to want in on it.
One of my favorite answers was a museum bathroom. I won’t out which museum it was, but that’s an artsy way to go about it. Another answer, was the FITTING ROOM. This one got me, most fitting rooms are right on the sales floor, they must have been sneaky.
MAKE IT FAST
This most likely is not the time to make it sensual, and feel every little thing going on. This kind of sex is suppose to be spontaneous, rough, and quick. Now of course, majority of the answers I got was in the bar bathroom, and I respect that! The bar is so loud, if you’re at a club, even better! You could ride the rhythm of the music, and even let out moans, I’m confident no one will hear you.
WHY?
Although this is not always the most ethical thing to do, and most likely is not allowed in said any places, however… it adds real spice to relationships. I am not encouraging you! ;) But I will speak on it.
I suppose this is something that does not happen too often, but when and if it does, do you feel like it was just, better sex than normal? The sex that comes out of left field and brings us the fastest orgasms are sometimes the best. I find it hot when your partner has to hush you or cover your mouth so everyone around you stays in the dark. We never want to get caught! I believe that’s the rush of it all. We love a chase, we love sexual suspense, and for that I DO encourage you to go after it.
Little cases like this can add a little spice here and there, it also adds as a great conversation after.
To get TO the point of wanting to have sex out anywhere that isn’t home, you need to get to that point of horniness.
Send a crazy sext, whisper in their ear, touch them softly and sexual in ways that isn’t obvious. Get the mind set for both of you. The second you are alone, you will not have a choice but to fill your satisfactions.
Another crazy idea, if you don’t want to actually have sex, but want to still be playful, put a panty vibe in your underwear and try to resist the vibrations. You’re walking down the produce isle girl, keep it cool.
Play it safe, read the environment, don’t over play the field here. We want to be DISCRETE. But also have a sexy fantasy to relive over and over again. We must weigh the pro’s and con’s in a situation like this <3
Good luck babes ;)
